You're not ever going to teach them how to vibrate, nor would you want to change them all to a place of vibrating just like you. Your work is not to fix them; they are not broken. Your work is to choose from among all of that which feels best to you, and fixate on it as long as it gives you pleasure and joy. And in doing so, you will align with the Energy of your Source, and you will live a magnificent experience. You just have to not let your joy depend upon what anybody else is living, cause that'll get you every time.
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Tarrytown, NY on Saturday, May 8th, 2004 #498
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I've been working a lot on attachment lately, and what I think is "supposed to" happen. It seems that the majority of my problems stem from the idea that there are correct ways to be in a particular relationship. Hence, there are wrong ways to be as well. When I relax into what is, all is well. Nothing is wrong, except for other peoples' failure to conform to my expectations. What's that you say? It's not my job to decide how other people should act or be or feel? Exactly. A friend needs to spend less time with me, or move on completely from our friendship? Nothing is wrong. A romantic relationship ends? Nothing is wrong. Kids do what kids do, growing up or regressing or staying exactly the same? Nothing is wrong. My job is to love them, wherever they are, however they are being. Their job is to express themselves as fully as possible. And nothing is ever wrong.Labels: Abraham, attachment, Hicks